change much?

this post has nothing to do with my most recent: insecure much?

so today i was talking to a good friend about our lives and such. when an old friend [who she still hangs out with, but i no longer] popped up into convo. she was telling me how much that girl has changed; for the worst. how she's living the fast life. parties, boys, big drama, and the wrong crowd. your typical gossip girl episode of the girl everyone loves to hate. she stated that if she doesn't stop and realize the things shes doing, someone is going to get hurt. [yes the plot thickens] shes going back and forth between these two guys. one who shes been involved with on and off for almost a year and another who she just met recently. now these two guys are complete enemies of each other. they can't stand each other's guts from what i hear. [that if they ever saw each other, a fight or maybe worse may break]

the girl i used to hang out with would'nt even be caught up in all this drama. what makes her crave all this attention and drama now a days?

so that brings me to my question....what makes people change? i mean change for the bad? why? especially when your life is pretty good. what makes you give all that up just to be on the tip of everyone's tongue in conversation?

idk. i guess my radar went up when i first saw those warning signs and left before i got to watch this train wreck in person. but im wondering do i tell her about herself? or let her be on her way. i mean she's not my girl anymore so would she even listen to what i have to say? who knows.....